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The Queen of Rejection™

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Elayne Savage, The Queen of Rejection®, has been published in 9 languages

Rejection hurts.

Your feelings can get hurt so easily . . . an unreturned phone call, the disillusionment of unfulfilled anticipation, finding ways to avoid the pain of yet another disappointment.

Yes, you can learn to deal with these often overwhelming feelings. Let's look at the forms rejection can take, where it comes from, and how to overcome the fear of it.

BOOKS AND CDs

Elayne Savage has gathered many wonderful stories over the years from colleagues, students, workshop participants and clients. She presents these sometimes poignant, sometimes humorous, but always profound and engaging vignette collages in her books and CDs.

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Don't Take It Personally! The Art of Dealing with Rejection (Book) - Wouldn't it be great to not be so sensitive to words, looks, or tones of voice? This thoughtful, good-humored book explores the many forms of rejection. You'll discover where it comes from, why you are sensitive, and how to overcome the fear of it. Most of all, you'll learn dependable tools for stepping back from these overwhelming feelings. You'll be able to choose how you want to respond.

"Never before has the impact of rejection been explored to this degree. Don't Take It Personally! offers much reassurance and inspiration."
Susan Jeffers, Ph.D., author of Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway and End the Struggle and Dance with Life.

More information about this book
Order this book  $16.95


Breathing Room Creating Space to Be a Couple (Book) You'll recognize what space struggles in relationships are really about. Expectations and disappointments, style differences, and hidden agendas lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Before you know it, anger and resentment build up, taking up all the space. You'll learn how to make room for the respect and connection you hope for.

This book is not just for couples. It provides valuable suggestions for anyone who yearns to become a couple but keeps bumping into those disconcerting 'space' issues.

"In Breathing Room, Elayne Savage reminds us that intimacy requires both closeness and space. This book is a refreshing read for couples who seek to deepen their bond."
Susan Page, author of How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together

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Order this book  $17.95


Don't Take It Personally! Make Rejection Your Ally (Audio CD) How are rejection and taking things personally connected? How do slights and taking things personally affect you professionally and personally? How can you check things out with the other person without sounding confrontational? How can you keep your expectations realistic so you don't get disappointed? You'll learn how to handle these tough situations with ease and grace. Caterina Rando interviews Elayne on this fascinating topic.

Order this CD  $14.95


Value Specials


Two Books:

Breathing Room Creating Space to Be a Couple
    - AND -
Don't Take It Personally! The Art Of Dealing with Rejection
($34.95 value) only $29.95

Order this Package  $29.95


Book: Don't Take It Personally! The Art Of Dealing with Rejection
    - PLUS -
CD: Don't Take It Personally! Make Rejection Your Ally for Business and Personal Success
($31.95 value) only $26.95

Order this Package  $26.95


Book: Breathing Room Creating Space to Be A Couple
    - PLUS -
CD: Don't Take It Personally! Make Rejection Your Ally for Business and Personal Success
($32.90 value) only $27.95

Order this Package  $27.95

 


Both books plus CD
($49.85 value) only $41.95

Order this Package  $41.95

 


 


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